Free spirit Academy

No. 1: What Are Your Short-Term Goals? If you're going to get into a relationship with a man, you should know what his plans are and how they fit into the key elements that make a man—who he is, what he does, and how much he makes. These three things, as I've already told you, are extremely important to any mature, grown man, and you have every right to know what he's doing right now, and what he's planning over the next three to five years, to be the real, grown man he wants to be. His answer also will help you determine whether you want to be a part of that plan or not. You'll know to throw up your much-needed red flag if he doesn't have a plan at all. No. 2: What Are Your Long-Term Goals? Trust me on this: a man who really has a vision for where he wants to see himself in ten years has looked into his future and seriously considered what it'll take for him to get there. It means he has foresight, and he's plotting out the steps to his futu...

Learning to forgive can only help you; it cannot hurt you. Forgiveness is immensely practical and helpful. There is nothing vague, or impractical about it. Forgiveness sets you free. As you learn to forgive many problems (possibly even health problems) will gradually disappear. It will be as if you can view your life from above and can see the easiest way get to where you want to be. Life will open up in front of you.  New opportunities will emerge as if from nowhere. Happy coincides will occur where you meet just the right person at just the right time. Ideas or answers will come to you just as you need them. A friend may make a comment, or you flip open a book or a magazine, or you may overhear a conversation which gives you just what you were looking for. Why is this so? It is because by practicing forgiveness you become more open to the goodness of life so that goodness is more able to find its way to you. If you want to move up to the next level of financial abu...

Scientists have been trying to figure out exactly what happens when we smile.   The results are fascinating!  Studies have found that smiling slows down the heart rate, reduces stress and can make you feel happier.  With these benefits, it is not surprising to find out that people that smile more often, also live longer! "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, 'I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you." - Dale Carnegie Dale Carnegie (November 24, 1888 – November 1, 1955) was an American writer and lecturer and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. Born into poverty on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936), a bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (1948), Lincoln the Unknown (1932), and several other books. One of the core ideas in his b...

1)Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill  I liked this book a lot. It changed the way of my thoughts. “You are the master of your destiny. You can influence, direct and control your own environment. You can make your life what you want it to be.” Napoleon Hill   2) How to Win Friends & Influence People ,  Dale Carnegie Learn the six ways to make people like you, the twelve ways to win people to your way of thinking, and the nine ways to change people without arousing resentment   3) As a Man Thinketh , James Allen As a Man Thinketh explains and promotes the direct connection between what we think and the direction our lives take. Allen reveals the secrets to having the most fulfilling existence possible, and it’s easier than any of us could have imagined.   4) Don't Sweat the Small Stuff , Richard Carlson Richard Carlson teaches us, simple strategies for living a more fulfilled and peaceful life. We can all learn to put things in perspectiv...

How to Win Friends and Influence People 1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain. 2. Give honest, sincere appreciation. 3. Arouse in the other person an eager want. 4. Become genuinely interested in other people. 5. Smile. 6. Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. 7. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. 8. Talk in terms of the other person’s interests. 9. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely. In our dealings with others, building them up shows we appreciate their contribution. The bond that results can help us withstand the pressures of our own day-to-day struggles. To get an idea of the sense of pride a new employee would exhibit from being a member of your team speaks volumes about their commitment to the company vision. Find out if your new hire cares about the organization by putting a hypothetical out there. 10. The only ...

My dear, grandmother. The dearest person to me. It's difficult to write for  you; now you aren't with us physically .   You have been very dear to me. You will remain a very important person in my life. I learned a lot of things from you. You have  taught me how to love and how to fight in my life. You gave me strength and you gave me might. I remember all your advice that you gave me, to become a better person. I remember a lot of things about you. I remember your hands  when you touched my  face like  I was still a child. I can't forget your eyes, your smell when you  hugged me. My dear grandmother, you were a very strong woman who has experienced many ups and downs in your life. When times were tough, you were stronger. But again you stayed strong till the end of your days. You know, you are a very special person for me.  Now that the time has co...

It's very important to be a positive person. An  optimist person faces every situation  that happens  in his life with strength .  Life is too short to waste   time being  sad,  jealo us , pessimist, and angry .  Being an optimist and enthusiastic person i s  important  for your physical and mental health . Good things come from the e nthusiasm. If you keep a positive attitude towards the problems they disappear spontaneously . You just have positive thoughts and negative thoughts . It's your choice. Positive thoughts generate positive feelings and attract positive life experiences. If you  let problems to pass without affected you, you are a person with a lot of spiritual strength. How you react to problems and challenges in your life tell much about your personality and your character. A strong personality  gives solutions of all the problems in a quick and efficient way and treats them...

#You educate a man; you educate a man. You educate a woman; you educate a generation.Brigham Young  #Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.                  Robert A. Heinlein  #Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.Nora Ephron  #Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness. Oprah Winfrey #A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous. Coco Chanel #Women are made to be loved, not understood. Oscar Wilde #If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.Margaret Thatcher #I guess at the end of the day, all women like to be appreciated and treated with respect and kindness.Sofia Vergara #All little girls should be told they are pretty, even if they aren't.Marilyn Monroe  #Think of al...